Some of us have a tendency to focus on the areas where we fall short. If your goal is to see this relationship grow, then nurture it. If he knows you appreciate who he is, it will only attract him more.After two months of dating, you shouldn’t be pushing him to get married. As I said before, I believe that one year is a reasonable amount of time to get to know someone.
The ultimate goal of dating or courting is finding a life partner.You won’t know everything, but you should be able to determine whether this relationship is going toward marriage.If he hasn’t initiated the conversation in a year, feel free to bring it up. If he gets angry or shuts down, it’s probably a sign that his commitment issues have gotten the best of him, and the relationship is not going in the right direction.So Scott Stanley and Galena Rhoades of the University of Denver looked at a sample of 315 young unmarried couples (59 percent dating and 41 percent cohabiting) between the ages of 18 and 34.These couples had been together for two years at the study’s beginning and each romantic partner had rated their level of commitment to the relationship.